Зурик, не скажи, вот тебя например я знаю, и если б ты меня попросил встретить тебя в аэропорту, я бы сделал это без проблем :) А вот если бы обьявился какой-нибудь Жорик, например, и сказал встречайте быстрее я еду счастья вам везу очень много, то совсем другое дело, скажи ведь.

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ну дак!

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Originally posted by Egor: A ya v lyubom sluchae 100 raz dumayu pered tem kak prosit. Tem bolee u neznakomyh lyudei, kotorym sam nikogda ni v chem ne pomogal. yazik u menya ne povernetsya. Poetomu neponimaem my zdes' vse drug-druga. Kom-partiya bol'she ne diktuet ponyatiya. i u kazhdogo oni svoi...

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Шаинский дал такое определение друга: Друг 1) в беде не бросит 2) лишнего не спросит Вот что значит а) настоящий б) верный друг

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Originally posted by Alex: ну дак!

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chego ty obzyvaeshsya-to

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а ты думал в сказку попал? :)

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Rgu ne mogu:))) kkaoy interesnyi topic otkryla Berezkina ,ya za mnogie mesetsy s udovolstviem begu na forum :))))Eto novaya volna na nashem forume:) Daesh Berezkinyx dlia podniatia duxa:)

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Here's how Wikipedia defines friendship: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friend __________________________________________ Friendship From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (Redirected from Friend) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Friendship is a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them. Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating on a consistent basis: the tendency to desire what is best for each other. sympathy and empathy. honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth. mutual understanding. It is often considered that a true friend is capable of deep feelings, which may be unexpressible, except in times of great trouble, when they come to one's aid. In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than acquaintanceship, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and acquaintances. For many people, friendship and acquaintanceship lie along the same continuum. The principal disciplines studying friendship are sociology, anthropology and zoology. Various theories of friendship have been proposed, among which are social psychology, social exchange theory, equity theory, relational dialectics, and attachment styles. See Interpersonal relationships Cultural variations Russia The relationship is constructed differently in different cultures. In Russia, for example, one typically accords very few people the status of "friend". These friendships however make up in intensity what they lack in number. Friends are entitled to call each other by their first names alone, and to use diminutives. Everyone else is addressed by full first name plus patronymic, and is known as an "acquaintance". These could include relationships which elsewhere would be qualified as real friendships, such as workplace relationships of long standing, neighbors with whom one shares an occasional meal and visit, and so on. Physical contact between friends is expected, and friends, whether or not of the same sex, will embrace, kiss and walk in public with their arms around each other, or arm-in-arm, or hand-in-hand, without the slightest embarrassment or sexual connotation. According to Oleg Kharkhordin in a paper on the politics of friendship, in Soviet society, friendships were "a suspect value for the Stalinist regime" in that they presented a stronger allegiance that could stand in possible opposition to allegiance to the Communist party. "By definition, a friend was an individual who would not let you down even under direct menace to him- or herself; a person to whom one could securely entrust one's controversial thoughts since he or she would never betray them, even under pressure. Friendship thus in a sense became an ultimate value produced in resistance struggles in the Soviet Union".

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a mi vot xot i znaem kuchu ludey s Leshkoy i ochen mnogim pomogli, no sami redko kogo kogda prosim.... vot moy muzh perevez pol-atlanti iz doma v dom, perviy gruzchik na derevne, e-moyo, a vot kogda mi pereezgali, tak emu videte li neudobno bilo prosit............ no samoye interesno, vse znali, chto mi pereezgaem i xot bi odin iz tex kogo MI perevozili pozvonil i predlozhil pomosh....! :) nu eto tak, misli vslux, mne prosto bilo zhalko Leshku (kotoriy v techenii nedeli kazhdiy den posle raboti ezdil i ODIN vso perevozil, a pod konets i Shurika, kotoriye vso ostalnoye tazheloye perevezli vdvoyom, no videmo vipendrivalis pered nami, zhenami, beremennimi, kotoriye i pomoch-to tolkom ne mogli! :(((

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Бывает так, что человек и порядочный, и скромный, - а вот не умеет этого показать...

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Originally posted by Alex: а ты думал в сказку попал? :)

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...похоже, что в мультик: ПЕСЕНКА ШАПОКЛЯК Кто людям помогает лишь тратит время зря Хорошими делами прославиться нельзя Поэтому я всем и каждому советую всё делать только так Как делает старуха по кличке Шапокляк Как делает старуха по кличке Шапокляк Кто людям помогает лишь тратит время зря Хорошими делами прославиться нельзя Прославиться нельзя прославиться нельзя Прославиться нельзя __________________________ Из мультфильма "Чебурашка"

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Толик, каждый смотрит через свою призму :) Всем не угодишь, да и не очень то и хотелось.

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...blin, kakie vse zagruzhennye stali... :)

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Originally posted by Alex: Толик, юмор оценен. А вообще, ну я ж не стал писать в топик про встречание студентов, что есть у нас такой Толик, который любит (во всяком случае, очень любил в свое время) встречать таких вот студентов :)

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...aga bylo delo. pomnyu pomnyu. ni chut' ne zhaleyu - klassnoe bylo leto! Tol'ko raznitsya v tom chto ya ih ne v aeroportu vstrechal i ne po zakazu. Ya snachala znakomisya, a potom v aeroportu provozhal. Teper' oni menya vstrechayut. Pral'no zdes' kto-to skazal: nado smotret' komu pomogaesh. A voobshe, ya druz'yam vsegda pomogu (esli znayu chto nado i osobenno esli sprosyat). V otnoshenii znakomyh (i neznakomyh) ya podumayu, NO esli uzh reshil pomoch to v otvet nichego nikogda ne ozhidayu, dazhe pomoshi - inache eto uzhe business a ne pomosh (ty mne, ya tebe). A dal'she uzhe vidno budet chto za chelovek - esli oni ne prosto ispol'zuyut lyudey, a tak-zhe v nuzhny moment sami priydut na podmogu - to u nas est' shans stat' horoshimi druz'yami. Esli lezut na sheyu - to nado umet' otkazyvat', sbrasyva' i zabyvat'. Mne priyatno pomogat' drugim, osobenno esli eto legko sdelat', ni k chemu ne obyazyvaet, i deystvitel'no komu-to neobshodimo (a ne prosto len' samim sdelat'). A vot pomogat', ozhidat' chego-to v otvet i dut'sya ne stoit - eto ni k chemu ne privodit.

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Что интересно, у меня абсолютно такой-же взгляд, чего спорим не понимаю :) Наверно чтобы просто спорить.

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Originally posted by 3ypuk: a tyt byl hot raz topik chtoby ludi naperegonki brosilis komy-to pomogat... rastalkivaya dryg dryga... ?

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Конечно были..навалом таких топиков.... только там не надо ни куда ехать обычно

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- Независимость - это когда в 20-й раз наступаешь на одни и те же грабли, а русские уже ни при чем....